I am used to dealing with problems. And problematic people. And usually they are just so full of their own pain and hurt, that they fail to see the pain and hurt in others. Because once you see the pain that you are causing in another person, you should be able to get over yourself – and want to heal, instead of wanting to inflict more pain.
I guess, as you get older, and as you have a family – you see that more. That’s how to deal with your spouse, your children, even yourself.
There really is no reason to be selfish. We have to keep giving of ourselves. Keep giving!
Aida complaining. She’s 1 year old. She can do that and get away with it.
Sabine showing off. She is 3 years old. She can do that and get away with it.